In 2022, Noella Bergener and then-boyfriend Bobby Schubenski shocked fans after announcing their sudden breakup after just a few months of marriage.
During an interview, the “RHOC” star explained that Bobby as a husband is amazing, and she has nothing but love and respect for him. On top of that, she is even thankful that she crossed paths with such an amazing person. However, no matter how hard they tried to work it out, it’s unfortunate that it wasn’t their time.
#RHOC Noella Bergener Introduces New Boyfriend Bobby Schubenski! Get Details Here: https://t.co/w39j0VrEUk pic.twitter.com/khKudPsWcm
— All About The Tea ☕ (@AllAboutDaTea) April 29, 2022
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The star also shared some of her takeaways from the said experience, reminding girls that falling in love and feeling all those butterfly feelings are equally important to know when it is already time for marriage.
Even though it may seem not, timing is crucial to a marriage. In an Instagram post she shared, Noella further explained that both she and Bobby had rushed into marriage too quickly, causing them to encounter some unexpectedly unsolvable problems as a couple.
With that said, even though they still wanted to work it out, Noella finally decided that she needed time to focus on her own personal growth and healing. However, it seems like she was also aware that her marriage with her ex-husband, James Bergener, also affected her short marriage with Bobby.
In a statement, Noella speculated that the PTSD she got from her previous marriage before Bobby has caused her to struggle moving forward in life. Considering that she had gained severe trust issues after her ex-husband James cheated on her, living her best marriage life with Bobby was just hard to do.
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That’s why, for now, she decided to prioritize her kids. However, she did make it clear that she still plans to find someone that fits into her life in the future. However, she plans to take some time for herself before considering another serious relationship or marriage.
Aside from her break-up with Bobby, Noella also faces some big problems, such as fighting for her son’s custody. Although James and Noella have already finalized their divorce, they seem to be working things out in Puerto Rico and California courts to fight for their son’s custody.
However, despite that and her sudden break-up with Bobby, Noella has expressed a desire to return to “The Real Housewives of Orange County” and continue sharing her story with fans. It’s because she feels she can inspire others to do what they think is best for them.
let’s raise a toast to this great woman who ruffled the wrong f(h)eathers, Noella Bergener you will be MISSED !!! ???????????? #RHOC pic.twitter.com/itlzB2KS89
— adam (@c0untesslumann) July 8, 2022
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Noella has also stated that she hopes to have a “real” marriage in the future, one that is based on trust, communication, and mutual respect, since these are the things that she hasn’t felt in her previous marriages. She also gave her “Future Partner” a heads up to be ready for a “Roller coaster” ride since her life works in that oddly exciting way.
After her breakup with Bobby Schubenski, Noella Bergener focuses on building a successful career and taking care of her son, who has been her main priority throughout this experience.
